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Book listing: Living without children

The books available from our library under the "Living without children" category are listed below.

Members are invited to submit their own reviews of books, so if you have read and enjoyed one, please email your comments to dcsg@optushome.com.au.

Please note that only DCSG members based in Australia may borrow library items, to be returned within 30 days. To check availability of a book to borrow, click on the book name for the "request availability" direct email link.

The types of issues raised in these books include:
Living without children
Coping with infertility
Society's view of childless couples
Choosing to be childless
Living Without Children
Coping with Childlessness
by Diane and Peter Houghton
UK 1984
Coping with Childlessness

From the back cover: “Involuntary childlessness affects an estimated 15% of the UK adult population but its personal and social effect is little understood...Until now little has been written about the emotional needs of the childless. Diane and Peter Houghton, themselves childless, have drawn on their personal experiences of tests, treatments, social prejudices and final readjustment to write this book.”


Marriage without Children
by Diana Burgwyn
USA 1981
Marriage without children

Men and Women tell what it is like to be childless by choice or chance.

From the back cover: “[this] book speaks to every couple who is coping with infertility or is deciding whether or not to have children as well as to anyone who wants a better understanding of the meaning of childlessness.”

 


Not having children
by Helen Marshall
Australia 1993
Not having children

From the back cover: “Not having children affirms that the couples who choose not to have children are not abnormal or immoral or irresponsible. For them, parenthood entails a profound commitment that they are not prepared to make at certain stages of their lives and careers... [It] examines the backgrounds of such people, the ways in which they assimilate other people's ideas about families, and the long-term consequences of their decision not to have children.”


Sweet Grapes: How to stop being Infertile and start living again
by Jean W.Carter and Michael Carter
USA, 1989
Sweet grapes

How to stop being infertile and start living again. Recommended for all couples who are nearing the end of their fertility options, or for those who are unsure whether to pursue infertility therapy at all.

Sweet Grapes won the 1990 Benjamin Franklin award given by PMA to the best new book in the field of Psychology, Marriage and Family.


The Childless Marriage
by Elaine Campbell
Great Britain 1985
The Childless Marriage
From the back cover: “Elaine Campbell describes the childless careers of 78 people interviewed in a large Scottish city. Her sympathetic and intimate account allows the childless to speak candidly for themselves. This humanistic approach gives a perspective on childlessness that recognises the ingenuity and creativity of individual men and women as they carve out an unconventional future for themselves within a culture that continues to stress the normality and naturalness of legitimate parenthood.”

The Option Of Parenthood
by Sue Dyson
Great Britain 1993
The Option of Parenthood
From the back cover: “This is a book for anyone who wants to think about why they want a family. It suggests ways of discussing the issues as a couple, understanding your own motivation, finding a choice that feels right for you and, if you ultimately decide that parenting is not for you, coping with the reactions of those around you.”

When You Can't Have a Child
by S.Powell and H. Stagol
Australia 1992
When you can't have a child

Chapters written by infertile individuals and couples. How people cope with the discovery of infertility. How people have come to terms with their childlessness.

From the back cover: “The choice for most of use is not whether to have children, but when. So how do you cope with the devastating discovery that there IS no choice?

  • How do you make a life without the children you always expected to have?
  • How do you deal with your desire to nurture?
  • How will your relationships be affected? What if you are on your own?
  • How do you grieve for the child that was never born?

With remarkable candour, married and single women and some of their partners talk about coming to terms with the unexpected direction their lives have taken.”


 
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